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I Didn't Think It Would Happen to Me

I Didn't Think It Would Happen to Me

I share my story and experience with you because I want other women to know that they’re not alone when they walk through miscarriage/early pregnancy loss. People will try to comfort you by saying, “It’s common.” And it’s true, it is. But that doesn’t mean you can’t grieve over the baby you will never hold in your arms or meet on this side of heaven. It’s heartbreaking…. but I want you to know I’m here. And I’m sharing things that I went through, things I was thankful for, and things that gave me peace and comfort in hopes of helping other women going through similar situations.

It's All In Your Head

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If you’re reading this blog post, it’s probably to learn about supporting your headaches naturally! 

In this post, we are going to share some things that cause headaches that you'll wanna avoid, and some natural remedies to combat your headaches. There are endless possibilities, but I stuck to 5 things in each category.

 I'll be honest… it's not like I never reach for an ibuprofen anymore, but it's my last resort. I try all the natural remedies first, and I encourage you to do the same! So let's dig in!




Causes of headaches … tonight we will discuss 5 potential and common causes of headaches including diet, fragrance, chemicals, hormones and eye strain . I'd be curious to hear which cause you believe you suffer from the most. 



  • Cause #1- Diet

This is a big one for me. I really have to watch how much dairy & gluten I consume, especially in the evenings. I found by trial and error that if I eat past 8 pm, especially if it's gluten or dairy, I suffer from a headache and upset stomach the next day and I'm usually spending my day on the couch. Next time a headache shows up, think about what you've recently eaten and consider if that may be the cause.




  • Cause #2- Fragrances

Did you know that thousands of chemicals can be masked under the word "fragrance"? The FDA allows companies to put this word on their labels and claim their ingredients as a "trade secret" so they don't have to disclose all the ingredients. Crazy right?! We found that getting rid of perfumes and candles significantly cut back on our headaches.  But FRAGRANCE is found in so much more…. Beauty products & cosmetics, soaps, detergents, feminine products, and so much more. This is definitely something that I almost guarantee could be giving you headaches.  Can I challenge you? Stop using fragrance products (especially candles and perfumes) for a month, and see if you notice a difference. If you don't, try using them again and see if a headache is triggered. You can easily swap out your perfumes for beautiful oil blends and candles for diffusers!



  • Cause #3- Chemicals

Chemicals are found in our everyday products.  We are talking, again, beauty products & cosmetics, cleaners, soaps, toothbrushes, furniture, toys, etc. This could definitely be triggering headaches. My first suggestion is to ditch every cleaner under your sink and switch to Thieves Cleaner. This cleaner is plant based and will not irritate your skin or lungs, and will not trigger headaches. Start here, and slowly ditch & switch your other products. 



  • Cause #4- Hormones

This is another common cause for me. I can always tell what time of the month it is, because I almost always get mild headaches for a few days in a row. So I support my hormones! My go-to for hormonal headache support is SclarEssence & Copaiba vitality in a capsule. 




  • Cause #5- Eye Strain

Do you find that you get headaches from your screen time? A lot of that has to do with the blue light that can really strain your eyes and cause headaches. I'd encourage you to start using these 2 things: blue light glasses & Illumineyes. Blue light glasses block the blue light from getting to your eyes and Illumineyes is a supplement from young living that helps support your eye health in significant ways!



Natural remedies….

Let's chat about some natural support options for your headaches.  There are so many natural remedies you can find on pinterest and even Instagram, but tonight I'm going to go over 5 with you including hydration, food, fresh air, grounding/earthing, and hot/cold compress.



  • Remedy #1 - Drink water  

Proper hydration is often forgotten. Dehydration can lead to many problems, including headaches! (It's actually almost always the underlying cause of all types of headaches.)

Next time you have a headache, drink 2 glasses of water ASAP. You may also consider adding Vitality Drops for the electrolytes, which provide minerals your body needs to function properly! 



  • Remedy #2 - Food

Sometimes a headache is triggered when you need to eat. If you haven't eaten yet and have a headache, try putting some food in your stomach to help your headache. There are also specific foods you may want to consume that have been found to help relieve headaches such as baked potatoes 🥔 (because of the high potassium), watermelon 🍉 (because of the water and magnesium content), coffee ☕ (IN MODERATION, because of the caffeine), whole grain toast 🍞 (because of the healthy carbs), almonds 🌰 (because of the magnesium), spicy salsa 🌶 (because it helps open up your airways)  yogurt 🥛(because of the calcium), sesame seeds 🧧 (because of the nutritional punch they offer), spinach salad 🥗 (because it decreases blood pressure). Ready to stock your pantry?!



  • Remedy #3- Fresh Air

One of the reasons fresh air may help a headache is because you're exiting the environment that could contain fragrances and chemicals that caused the headache in the first place. In fact,  there are some places we go that I always get a headache from because of the fragrances and chemicals used. So go outside and take a walk, and fill your lungs with that extra oxygen. If you can’t go outside due to weather, open up some windows and let the fresh air fill your home.  



  • Remedy #4- Grounding/ Earthing 👣

If you've never heard of Grounding or Earthing, it's pretty fascinating. (watch this when you get the chance >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=44ddtR0XDVU&app=desktop )

Just touching the earth through your bare feet helps reduce inflammation significantly by calming the nervous system and improving blood flow. So  many people have amazing testimonies of how simply walking around barefoot helped relieve their headaches. A great option for winter months and rainy days is an earthing mat, which can be purchased even on Amazon. So, next time you have a headache, get some fresh air and walk around barefoot. Double benefits!



  • Remedy #5 - Cool/Hot Compress 

Sometimes a change in temperature on location can really relieve the pain.  Cold compresses have a numbing effect, which may help dull the pain.  Hot compresses help to relax the muscles and tension.  So it really depends on the type of headache, but you could even alternate with each every 15 minutes or so. (You could also take a hot/cold shower/bath!)  Which do you prefer- hot or cold?  



OILS! 

Okay, let’s talk about 5 specific oils that could help support your headache trouble. There are many that can help, especially depending on the type or cause of headache.  We’ll talk about Lavender, M-Grain, Peppermint, Deep Relief, and Copaiba. 



  • Oil #1- Basil

Basil oil is fantastic for muscle discomfort and tension. It’s historically known as a home remedy for its ability to relax and relieve. Because of it’s amazing abilities, it can be a great support for headaches caused by tension and tight muscles. 



  • Oil #2 - M-Grain 

I’ve heard so many great results from migraine sufferers who use M-Grain.  It’s a powerful blend of Basil, Marjoram, Peppermint, Lavender, Roman Chamomile, and Helichrysum. This is a great oil to keep by your computer to apply when you start feeling that tension in your head and neck!



  • Oil #3 - Peppermint 

This is one of my first go-to oils for headache support. The menthol is so soothing and comforting, and helps relax muscles and support pain levels.   It’s actually one of the most popular uses for Peppermint, mentioned many times on the internet for natural headache support. For an extra umph, you could follow application of Peppermint with a hot/cold compress to drive in the Peppermint.  Also, remember that Peppermint is an amplifier, so you could combine this with another oil for an extra boost. 



  • Oil #4 - Deep Relief

This might be my favorite oil for headache support because it’s so convenient to apply!  The roller makes it easy to roll on my forehead, temples, neck… anywhere that needs some deep relief!  This is a blend of Peppermint, Lemon, Balsam Canada, Clove, Balsam Copaiba, Coconut oil, Wintergreen, Helichrysum, Vetiver, and Dorado Azul.  Definitely a great one to have on hand!



  • Oil #5- Copaiba 

This oil is wonderful for supporting your body in its natural defense against inflammation.  You can apply it topically on location.  My personal favorite way to use Copaiba is to take Copaiba vitality internally in a vegetable capsule. This also is an amplifier, so you may want to consider using it along with another oil as well.



SO, there ya have it!  5 causes, 5 remedies, and 5 oils. Thanks so much for joining me tonight, and I hope you learned some valuable information. What was your biggest takeaway? Have any other headache tips to share? I’d love to hear from you in the comments!

Road Tripping Necessities

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About a week ago, Brian and I flew out to Utah for Young Living International Grand Convention, and drove back home to Ohio! I enjoyed it much more than flying, but Brian did all the driving (even though I offered to drive a few times). We found some things that were super beneficial along our journey, so we want to share them with you here!

  1. Deep Relief

    Deep Relief is a magical little rollerball blend from Young Living that eases any tension or discomfort you’re feeling anytime. While traveling, this is a common occurrence! The Roll-On makes it easy to swipe along your head or neck with simplicity and gives almost immediate relief.

  2. Get snacks ahead of time

    Gas Station snacks are EXPENSIVE. We stocked up on some of our favorites ahead of time at the grocery store, and we never did have to stop for lunch! We always had a big breakfast, snacked throughout the day, and then stopped for dinner.

  3. Find a hotel with a mini kitchen

    This was SUPER handy since we had a cooler full of food leftover from our groceries for the week. We stayed at two Marriott hotels, and each had a mini kitchen, including a full size fridge/freezer. It was great!

  4. Castille Soap in a Foaming Hand pump

    I don’t know about you, but I find the bar soaps offered at hotels just super annoying to wash your hands with. Plus, we live as toxin-free as possible. So even the name brand soaps offered at our Airbnb wasn’t our top pick. I put a little bit of liquid castille soap in a foaming pump bottle, added my choice of YL essential oils, and then topped it off with water once we got to our destination. This made it super easy and clean to use as a hand soap! Plus, there are MANY OTHER USES for castille soap if needed in a pinch!

  5. Orb Diffuser

    Having this handy dandy Orb Diffuser was perfect for our journey. It runs off a USB input and fits perfectly in the cup holder of the car! We diffused Peppermint and Citrus Fresh often on our car ride to keep up alert and energized! I definitely recommend having some sort of a car diffuser on any long distance trips!

  6. Peppermint Neck Massage

    At one point on our trip, I put some Peppermint on my fingers and gave Brian a neck massage as he drove. Safe to say he loved it, because he asked for it again a couple times on our drive back home, and told me I should share this tip with others! A peppermint neck massage can help keep tension low and energy high!

  7. iExit App

    This app was a LIFESAVER. Anyone else picky about where they have to stop for potty breaks?! This app shows you what is coming up at all the exits ahead on your drive. It shows you gas stations, hotels, restaurants, hospitals, and more. SUPER CONVENIENT, and definitely worth downloading!

  8. BONUS: For all the ladies….

    If you’re lucky like me, Mother Nature decides to let Aunt Flo join you for every trip. Yay… These were an absolute lifesaver. They saved me from embarrassment and having to change clothes. This is one purchase I definitely don’t regret!

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I also found some clever ways to pack my Young Living products for the week, so here are a few tips!

Mirah Shave Oil - Instead of packing the whole bottle, I pumped just enough into an empty 5 ml essential oil bottle, and put a dropper top on it. It was super convenient to just drop into my hand and throw into my bag!

Supplements- I packed several supplements, and I didn’t want to pack all the bulky bottles. So I either put them into little jewelry ziplock baggies, or in pill containers from Walmart, and labeled them for each individual supplement.

Dry Shampoo- I make my own dry shampoo, so I just put some into an empty Savvy Minerals Foundation container and was able to shake it on as needed! Here is my recipe >>> https://www.instagram.com/tv/BuB75uLBW4B/

Prenolone +/Satin Mint Face Scrub- These were a couple of products that I only needed for a few days of our trip, so I just put the amount I needed in small empty containers!

Laundry Soap- I figured I would only need to do one load of laundry, so I poured my Thieves Laundry Soap into a small pill container and was good to go!

You can watch my IGTV episode on my packing tips here >> https://www.instagram.com/tv/Bz_JaODh0bY/

Do you have any travel tips? I would love to know about them, so comment below!